Not to mention, during the scene where she was at the amusement park with him, I noticed that he was more interested in hanging with his boys rather than tending to the woman that was his date. Also a sign of a little boy. I do not have a problem with him wanting to have fun and devote all of his attention to his boys, but if that was the case, why even invite Chilli? Why not just spend time with them individually. A woman should not feel like she is an extra in her own date.