Stringing Along

I watched the latest episode of What Chilli Wants last night and I could not help but notice one key thing as Chilli and Floyd Mayweather interacted. He is stringing her along. Sure he may care for her but the truth of the matter is he is still very much so a little boy. He has an obsession with material things, bragging about his wealth in order to feel like a big man. Men like that love the image more than the substance, and that is usually where the problem starts.

Boys And Dating

Not to mention, during the scene where she was at the amusement park with him, I noticed that he was more interested in hanging with his boys rather than tending to the woman that was his date. Also a sign of a little boy. I do not have a problem with him wanting to have fun and devote all of his attention to his boys, but if that was the case, why even invite Chilli? Why not just spend time with them individually. A woman should not feel like she is an extra in her own date.

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No Clear Answer

The pinnacle of my annoyance with him was when she repeatedly asked him did he honestly see a future with her. Was she wasting her time waiting on him? He never answered her clearly. He chose to dance around the question and avoid giving a yes or no. Like a scared little boy would. Now, I am not completely blaming Floyd because she has also allowed this to go on by even dealing with him. However the question is at what point should you give up on a person?

Wait Or Move On

It is obvious that he is not as serious about her as she is him. That could change but for now, that seems to be the position he is in. In Chilli’s case, Floyd won’t even agree to be exclusive with her. That is as basic as it gets on the commitment bar. Should you ever wait on the person to commit to you? If so for how long? Waiting can feel romantic when you believe in somebody, but it can also become a trap if the other person is just coasting.

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